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WOW! Things are really happening!

Posted on 2007.06.24 at 15:36
Current Mood: peacefulpeaceful
Current Music: Baby Face Leroy Foster - Rollin' & Tumblin' Parts 1 & 2
We had our aufruf yesterday, and today we went to the Mikveh today. Stefanie and I are really, actually, and for true getting married a week from today! Wow and yay!

I was surprised by how much I liked the Mikveh. I had never been before. The place was clean but not sterile or forbidding, and the people couldn’t have been nicer. They made it clear that how much adherence to halakha I wanted to do was my own business (and I figured that while I was there I might as well go for the full-on halakhic package), but at the same time didn’t make me feel weird at all for saying that I wanted to do the whole traditional ritual, but not any of their meditationey new-agey renewaley stuff. It was really a good experience. I feel somewhat strange saying this, just because it does sound sort of ‘spiritual,’ but it was genuinely moving and transformative. I am still kind of absorbing it, but suffice for now to say that I felt it. I feel like I am ready to be the best that I can for Stefanie, like I am ready to cleave completely to her and to our new family. Baruch HaShem!

Comments:


Susan
suzermagoozer at 2007-06-24 23:12 (UTC) (Link)
wow jon!
that's so great.
we can't wait.

hope we can see you saturday.
Jonathan
theservant at 2007-06-25 01:54 (UTC) (Link)
I am so excited! Yay!
eitanhalevy
eitanhalevy at 2007-06-25 06:42 (UTC) (Link)
You know I'm pretty right wing Orthodox, so I'm sure you understand where this question is coming from, but I'm curious what you mean by the 'full-on halakhic package.' Just wondering what that entails...
Jonathan
theservant at 2007-06-25 11:49 (UTC) (Link)
Just that everything is done according to halakha, proper brachas, making sure the immersion is kosher, etc.
miz_tuffet at 2007-06-25 23:07 (UTC) (Link)
How awesome :) This entry, it gives me hope for myself. What a wonderful experience for the both of you.. and what good things must be in the future, too!
Jonathan
theservant at 2007-06-26 02:28 (UTC) (Link)
There should be hope. I didn't have any hope, and it is all turning out good.
Your host
nachomama at 2007-06-26 03:06 (UTC) (Link)
Ok, so I understood about one-quarter of what you said up there (not my fault - blame 14 years of Catholic school!) but congratulations to you both. Totally wow AND yay!
Myp3uK
sputnik5 at 2007-06-26 13:15 (UTC) (Link)
How awesome!
And congratulations on finding meaningful ritual for such a special occasion.
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